Estate Planning Series - Part 4 - Sharing Your Estate Plan

Estate Planning Series - Part 4 - Sharing Your Estate Plan
Zachary J. Montgomery JD, CPA, CFE
Written By: Zachary J. Montgomery, JD, CPA, CFE
Managing Member
Published On: 
May 25, 2023

This is the fourth blog in our Estate Planning Considerations series. In the previous blog, we discussed the topic of revocable living trusts and when it is appropriate to establish one as part of your estate planning strategy. In this blog, we will address whether you should share your estate plan with your family. Estate planning is not just about creating legal documents to distribute your assets after your passing; it is also an opportunity to foster transparency and open communication within your family.

Benefits of Sharing Your Estate Plan

  • Clarity and Understanding: Sharing your estate plan with your family members provides clarity regarding your intentions and helps them understand how your assets will be distributed. It eliminates ambiguity and potential conflicts that may arise if family members are unaware of your plans.
  • Minimizing Disputes: By openly discussing your estate plan, you give your family an opportunity to address any concerns or questions they may have. This can help prevent misunderstandings and potential disputes among family members in the future.
  • Managing Expectations: Sharing your estate plan allows you to manage expectations regarding inheritance and asset distribution. It helps set realistic expectations among your family members, reducing the likelihood of disappointment or resentment.
  • Building Trust and Unity: Openly sharing your estate plan demonstrates trust and respect for your family members. It can strengthen family bonds and promote unity by involving your loved ones in the decision-making process.

Considerations for Sharing Your Estate Plan

  • Privacy Concerns: Sharing your estate plan means disclosing sensitive financial and personal information to your family members. Consider whether you are comfortable with this level of transparency, and weigh the potential impact on your privacy.
  • Emotional Reactions: Discussing estate planning matters can evoke strong emotions within your family. Be prepared for a range of reactions, including surprise, disappointment, or even disagreements. It's crucial to approach these conversations with empathy and patience.
  • Family Dynamics: Assess the dynamics within your family. Consider whether sharing your estate plan will contribute to a harmonious and cooperative environment or potentially create tension and conflict. Evaluate the potential impact on relationships and make an informed decision based on your family's unique circumstances.
  • Trustworthiness: Trust is essential when sharing sensitive information. Evaluate the level of trust you have in your family members' ability to respect your wishes and handle the information responsibly. If there are concerns about confidentiality or conflicts of interest, you may need to exercise caution or explore alternative options, such as involving a neutral third party or professional advisor.


Deciding whether to share your estate plan with your family members is a personal choice that depends on various factors. While transparency and open communication can offer numerous benefits, it's essential to carefully evaluate your unique circumstances and consider the potential consequences.

Remember, estate planning is not a one-time task but an ongoing process. It's important to review and update your estate planning documents periodically to reflect any changes in your circumstances, such as births, deaths, marriages, or divorces. Working with an experienced estate planning attorney can provide valuable guidance and support throughout this process.

In the next blog of the Estate Planning Considerations series, we will explore the following topic: Questions to Consider Before Meeting with an Attorney.

Contact Provident Legal Counsel today to discuss your estate plan. Schedule a Consultation or call (214) 432-6100.

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Zachary J. Montgomery JD, CPA, CFE
Written By: Zachary J. Montgomery, JD, CPA, CFE
Managing Member
Published On: 
May 30, 2024
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